Ask them about their hobbies to see if you can do something together within one another’s shared interests. Get to know this person. Find their likes and dislikes, favorite activities, their favorite colors, etc. There is so much you can find out! Friends are everywhere, so don’t be shy and stay inside your house! Go to the park, or even join a club or an after school activity! Make friends everywhere and anywhere!
Get their phone number and call them once in a while, maybe once or twice a week. Like plants, don’t water them too often. Don’t call on the same day every week; try to pick a random day or keep it unpredictable. Give them gifts if their birthday or a holiday is coming. It doesn’t have to be something big or expensive. Homemade gifts are a good option. But don’t make it look like you spent hours on it. Write a handwritten letter. Sure, It’s easier to write emails or write on their Facebook wall. But, there is a certain charm to the handwritten letter or a card. Just how you took some time to find a suitable paper, write on it, and mail it instead of the online alternative, shows how much thought went into it. They may keep it for years to come! Ask if one day they can come over to your house, or do something fun together. Make sure you’ve known this person for a while first, though. If you know someone for a day or two, then ask them kindly and convincingly to come to your house, they may find this a bit strange. Some friendships come easily and nurturing them is not hard to do. Others, however, require more thought and action. That’s okay. Putting effort into a friendship doesn’t mean the friend is not right for you, it simply means that your friendship is different and you need to work to keep it strong. [7] X Research source
If the person keeps the secret, you can tell another, slightly larger secret. Soon your friend may build a track record of trust by keeping all of your secrets, and you will know that this is a person that you can share your deepest thoughts with. [10] X Research source
Secrets which you hold back about your friend may come out at a bad time and can have a serious negative effect on your friend.
